
Betrand Peto, widely known as Onyo, has publicly urged individuals to refrain from meddling in the ongoing marital issues between his adoptive parents, Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah. Onyo’s impassioned plea comes amidst reports of escalating tensions within the high-profile couple’s relationship.
Addressing the growing discord, Onyo specifically extended his request to those in close proximity to Sarwendah and Ruben, warning that their involvement could exacerbate an already delicate situation. His stance is clear: outside interference is unwelcome and potentially detrimental.
“I implore everyone, whoever is with Bunda (Sarwendah), not to interfere with their household matters. Even I, as their child, do not get involved,” Betrand stated from the Senayan area of Central Jakarta. He further emphasized his point, adding, “Once again, do not interfere, whether you are a sibling or anyone else, just do not interfere.”

Betrand Peto Offers Solely His Best Support for Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah
Onyo revealed that he possesses a deep understanding of Ruben and Sarwendah’s relationship dynamic. As their adopted son, his role, he believes, is to offer unwavering support, hoping it will pave the way for a swift resolution to his parents’ challenges.
“I know I am not Bunda’s biological child, nor Ayah’s (Ruben’s) biological child. But as a child who has known my parents’ love story, I only support them for good things,” Betrand clarified, acknowledging his unique position within the family.
He reiterated his commitment to non-interference: “I do not get involved in their household problems. I know the situation, but I don’t want to interfere too much. I just ask that people don’t meddle in my parents’ problems, that’s all. Hopefully, this issue can be resolved soon.”

The underlying tensions between Sarwendah and Ruben have reportedly intensified over several critical issues, including disagreements regarding child visitation rights and the division of marital assets. Furthermore, it has been highlighted that Ruben has allegedly ceased providing financial support for the past six months.
Sarwendah also brought to light a significant concern regarding a house reportedly used as collateral for Ruben’s company debt. These mounting issues culminated in the couple’s divorce, which was officially finalized on September 24, 2024.
Following their separation, the South Jakarta District Court’s Panel of Judges awarded full child custody to Sarwendah, marking a definitive legal outcome for the prominent family.
Summary
Betrand Peto, known as Onyo, has publicly urged individuals to stop interfering in the marital issues between his adoptive parents, Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah. He stressed that even as their child, he does not get involved in their household matters. Onyo’s role, he believes, is to offer unwavering support, hoping for a swift resolution to their challenges and warning that outside interference could worsen the delicate situation.
The tensions between Sarwendah and Ruben escalated due to critical issues, including child visitation rights, marital asset division, and Ruben allegedly ceasing financial support for six months. Sarwendah also raised concerns about a house used as collateral for Ruben’s company debt. Their divorce was finalized on September 24, 2024, with the South Jakarta District Court awarding full child custody to Sarwendah.